Tuesday, November 28, 2006
Revisiting The Interview
Today it is time to provide you with another excerpt from my interview with “Imaginary Spanking Magazine.”
Imaginary Spanking Magazine Writer (ISMW): I’d like to return for a moment to a comment you made earlier. You said that you were enthralled by a spanking given by a woman to a little girl. Don’t you think that is rather, well, yucky?
Me: An excellent question. Let me first reiterate that, at the time I witnessed that particular spanking, I was all of 12 years old. So I was not much more than a little boy myself. Second, it was not the little girl that held my curiosity. It was the woman doing the spanking. You see, I began to think of what it would be like if it were me under that woman’s hand. In subsequent spanking fantasies of mine, the little girl was never involved. While I still have a vivid picture of what the woman looked like, I have very little recollection of the little girl.
ISMW: So what are your feelings on spanking children?
Me: Well, my wife and I have never spanked our children. This was a conscious decision. We were both afraid that, since we both derive considerable sexual pleasure from spankings, that it would be too easy to fall into dangerous habits, such as spanking the girls to make ourselves feel better rather than to properly discipline them.
I don’t necessarily feel that children should never be spanked. Depending on the parent, the child, and the offense, a spanking may be appropriate. I do think that there is a line between spanking and abuse, and parents must never cross that line. The only place a child should be spanked is on the bottom, not on the back or legs or anywhere else. I also think there is a risk of teaching children that the way to deal with someone with whom you are angry is the strike out at them. However, I think a small number of swats to the backside with the back your hand or even a paddle-like implement can be an effective way of driving home a point.
ISMW: Moving to adulthood, what is it that you enjoy about spankings?
Me: Well, just about everything. I enjoy the vulnerable positions in which one is spanked. I enjoy the anticipation of the first swat. I love the sound of an implement cracking the flesh on the buttocks. And I like buttocks.
ISMW: What about the pain. Isn’t being spanked painful.
Me: Well, yes, but pain releases endorphins. Furthermore, the human tuchas is also a major erogenous zone. So, for some people, that combination more than blocks out the unpleasantness that the spanking might cause.
ISMW: Have you ever spanked someone who didn’t want to be spanked?
Me: No. Well, there have been a couple of times when I swatted a well-formed bottom when it was being pointed at me for a considerable period of time, but one swat hardly constitutes a spanking, eh?
ISMW: So you’ve never spanked someone as a punishment rather than as foreplay?
Me: That would not be a true statement. As readers of my online journal know, I have, on one or two occasions, taken a board to the rear-end of someone who needed to be taught a lesson. But they knew that their actions were inappropriate and childish, and they agreed that being paddled was the proper way of making them accountable for their actions. You could say that didn’t want it, but deep down I think they felt that they needed to be spanked. I didn’t hold them down or anything, and were they to indicate that the pain was more than they had bargained for, I would have immediately ceased.
Imaginary Spanking Magazine Writer (ISMW): I’d like to return for a moment to a comment you made earlier. You said that you were enthralled by a spanking given by a woman to a little girl. Don’t you think that is rather, well, yucky?
Me: An excellent question. Let me first reiterate that, at the time I witnessed that particular spanking, I was all of 12 years old. So I was not much more than a little boy myself. Second, it was not the little girl that held my curiosity. It was the woman doing the spanking. You see, I began to think of what it would be like if it were me under that woman’s hand. In subsequent spanking fantasies of mine, the little girl was never involved. While I still have a vivid picture of what the woman looked like, I have very little recollection of the little girl.
ISMW: So what are your feelings on spanking children?
Me: Well, my wife and I have never spanked our children. This was a conscious decision. We were both afraid that, since we both derive considerable sexual pleasure from spankings, that it would be too easy to fall into dangerous habits, such as spanking the girls to make ourselves feel better rather than to properly discipline them.
I don’t necessarily feel that children should never be spanked. Depending on the parent, the child, and the offense, a spanking may be appropriate. I do think that there is a line between spanking and abuse, and parents must never cross that line. The only place a child should be spanked is on the bottom, not on the back or legs or anywhere else. I also think there is a risk of teaching children that the way to deal with someone with whom you are angry is the strike out at them. However, I think a small number of swats to the backside with the back your hand or even a paddle-like implement can be an effective way of driving home a point.
ISMW: Moving to adulthood, what is it that you enjoy about spankings?
Me: Well, just about everything. I enjoy the vulnerable positions in which one is spanked. I enjoy the anticipation of the first swat. I love the sound of an implement cracking the flesh on the buttocks. And I like buttocks.
ISMW: What about the pain. Isn’t being spanked painful.
Me: Well, yes, but pain releases endorphins. Furthermore, the human tuchas is also a major erogenous zone. So, for some people, that combination more than blocks out the unpleasantness that the spanking might cause.
ISMW: Have you ever spanked someone who didn’t want to be spanked?
Me: No. Well, there have been a couple of times when I swatted a well-formed bottom when it was being pointed at me for a considerable period of time, but one swat hardly constitutes a spanking, eh?
ISMW: So you’ve never spanked someone as a punishment rather than as foreplay?
Me: That would not be a true statement. As readers of my online journal know, I have, on one or two occasions, taken a board to the rear-end of someone who needed to be taught a lesson. But they knew that their actions were inappropriate and childish, and they agreed that being paddled was the proper way of making them accountable for their actions. You could say that didn’t want it, but deep down I think they felt that they needed to be spanked. I didn’t hold them down or anything, and were they to indicate that the pain was more than they had bargained for, I would have immediately ceased.
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Frank,
An interesting interview! Having just given my first spanking to John, I especially liked the part where you explain loving the sounds of the implement cracking on the flesh. I, too, love the beauty of butts!
I'm glad I stopped by.
Nancy (aka SNN)
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An interesting interview! Having just given my first spanking to John, I especially liked the part where you explain loving the sounds of the implement cracking on the flesh. I, too, love the beauty of butts!
I'm glad I stopped by.
Nancy (aka SNN)
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